I'm really on it today... two more things:

A1) Weddings should be cheaper - according to the church, we should all be saving money and having cheaper, greener weddings. Bloody good idea. With the statistic banded around that on average a wedding in the UK costs 17 grand, we could all do with spending a bit less. Jen and I noted the problem, and made our wedding cost far less than that without losing any of the impact. We made our own invites and orders of service, didn't buy a wedding dress (although I didn't have a hand in that decision, and wouldn't have minded), refused to hire an expensive photographer (everyone has a digital camera, so we gave out CDs), and generally saved money by doing things ourselves that otherwise we'd have paid through the nose for. Had we not gone for one of the most expensive locations in South Yorkshire for our reception (certain things are worth forking out on), the whole thing could have been even cheaper, maybe less than 8 grand, and that includes the honeymoon in Mauritius. The church should be commended for making the recommendation.

A2) Can't remember the second thing.